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ChristinaBryce
2 years ago
Q: Liking Him Has Changed Me
Q: Here's the thing. I really like this boy. We both get good grades in school, but he's really popular and polite. I'm....not. I'm basically antisocial. I usually am just pretty detached from everyone at school because they really drive me crazy. But since I've liked him it's kind of brought emotions back and made me kind of hang out with people more? I actually became somewhat popular since liking him. But it's scary because I feel like liking him made me someone I'm not. If he liked me, wouldn't he be liking someone I'm not? Should I just change back or see how this works out? Leave your advice for this anon in the comments!

ChristinaBryce
2 years ago
Make the First Move!!!
I definitely have said this before (and I'll say it again!) but you should remember that you do not have to wait for the person you're interested in to make the first move! If you're interested in someone, the best way isn't to try to sneakily get close to them or wait for them to come to you. You don't want to seem creepy to them! It's better to be somewhat direct and get a clear answer from them. Afraid making the first move won't work? Nonsense! Traditionally, guys are expected to make the first move, which is lame. Check out these stories from 5 girls who made the first move...and it worked out! Helping Him Go First "It's not really 'the first move' per se, but my boyfriend, before he was my boyfriend, wanted to kiss me on the last day of our sophomore year of high school. I knew he would be too afraid to do it so I came up with a plan to walk him home, and just as he was about to leave, I said, 'You can kiss me now if you want.' He said, 'That's a good idea' and went in for the kiss. It was pretty lame, especially in comparison to our kisses now, but he's very shy and awkward around people so it was fine."