Recently someone told me that certain people are above me and that I don’t need to think about them. I really wanted to say screw you, but since this person was a coworker, I didn’t say that.
I was so pissed when I heard this and for a few minutes, I dipped into ‘does this person think I’m inferior to those people’ and I sort of spiraled into doubting myself. I started to think that does he think I’m inferior? Why would he say something like this to me? But then I bounced back and told him, “If someone doesn’t want to talk to me or thinks that I’m inferior, then they can go screw themselves because I’m awesome. There isn’t another girl like me, but I will not start thinking that someone is above me or that I’m above them. That kind of crap does not exist in my dictionary. If I like someone, I will like them regardless of who they are.”
I was extremely pissed. I really wanted to blow my top and unleash my rage, but I know it wouldn’t end well for me, so I held back and then I worked (exercise) it all off.
I think he said this because he has a crush on me and doesn’t want me to look at other guys, but this was too much. I am aware that he likes me, but this was just wrong in many ways. He blew it with me after he said this and I lost all respect for him. I can’t look at him the same anymore. Plus I never told him that I never saw him as anything more than a friend. He’s WAY younger than me and I don’t date guys that young. I’d feel like a complete pedophile if I did.
However, this got me thinking, “Don’t let anyone tell you that you’re inferior to someone. Don’t let someone make you feel inferior. Know that you’re awesome and if someone doesn’t want to talk to you, it’s their loss, not yours. Hell, inferiority complex SHOULD NOT exist in YOUR DICTIONARY.”
Inferiority complex should be deleted from your life. Here are some ways on how you can light it up and completely burn the phrase from your life: