a year ago
Support and Advice needed.
Hey vingle fam! Rosa here, and I just really need to vent, because I'm just super anxious and don't know what to do anymore. So my boyfriend had just broken up with me after 6 months of dating, but I want to hear from you guys, what you think about it, and what advice you guys can give me. So we were in an interracial (he's asian, I'm hispanic)/long distance relationship (not as long as you would think, but there was a distance), and throughout this whole time, I thought that he was really into me. He would go the extra mile to go and make me happy. He has memorized everything that makes me, well, me. He has gone to a kpop concert for me (he doesn't even like kpop like that), he has stopped a bus to see me, he has done just so much. I really fell for him because of all of this. I thought that we were doing so great, and that everything was perfect, but it turns out, it wasn't. Last week, I went to go visit him in the town he was raised in (for our 6 month anniversary), and I met his family and everything. We watched home videos, and it made me like him a lot more than I had before. But once I went back home, he told me that he was tired of me, and that he needed space. So on Monday, while breaking up (this was via skype btw), he said that since the first day, he has never had butterflies from me. That he knows what it feels like, and he didn't get anything from me. That he tried, but it just didn't happen, and that he wanted to break up because he wanted to go find and feel that again. My heart broke, and I was devastated. All he had to say was that he was sorry, but he wanted to find real happiness. I pretty much summarized it, but this is what happened, and I'm still so hurt by it. I just need support and advice, because I just feel so lost. Thank you guys for your time - Rosa