Love The Skin Im In
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LizArnone
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Love The Skin Im In
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The Insanity Surrounding Gender Neutral Bathrooms
People are shitting their pants (maybe literally) about the fact that gender neutral bathrooms are about to spring up so that the transgendered community will never have to worry about which bathroom to go into. Because you know, having a safe place to use the bathroom should normally be a fundamental human right. God forbid, I know. But what's so insane is that my newsfeed is blowing up over people now protesting target because they are all in favor for these bathrooms!! Here are some of the arguments. 1. Some pervert is going to come in and rape my child in a public bathroom. 2. If they still have a dick they should be in the guys bathroom, and vice versa. 3. Why the fuck should we make more trouble for ourselves just to make sure someone can use the bathroom?! The list of insanity goes on. To which I have to remind everyone .... 1. Statically child molesters are usually heterosexual males. Oh and also, usually someone you know so... This is awkward now. 2. What someone has underneath their pants could not be any less of your business. No one is asking about your junk so stop asking about other people's. It's fucking rude. 3. What you are freaking out about is the right for someone to use the bathroom. Do you understand how insane that is? Newsflash, transgendered people's are PEOPLE, treat them like such. 4. Oh and by the way, these people have been using the bathrooms THIS WHOLE TIME! It's not like they just held it in all these years. And yet.... There hasn't really been any reports of brutal public bathroom rapes by transpeople........ Look, if you feel uncomfortable with someone whose different then you that's fine. It is not my place to force you to open up your mind and accept something you can't possibly understand. But if that's the case, do us all the favor and hold your bullshit until you get home. If you are so worried about whose in the bathrooms, don't fucking use them.
5 Reasons Why Melissa McCarthy Is A Body Positive Goddess.
It's all well and good when actresses and actors tell you to love yourself. Queen Bey is all about that feminist, body positive power. However through no fault of their own, it's hard to hear "love yourself" from someone who inherently has a socially accepted SLAMMING body. Which is why I fucking love Melissa McCarthy. She has been every size under the sun, and understands better then most what's it's like to be judged by your size. And you know what, she doesn't give a fuckkkkkk. Check out 5 of her AMAZING quotes about body imagine. It is imperative that we women epically remember that there is no need to change for anyone. People love you for you, and if someone doesn't, you don't need them. They'll find someone else who will fit their picky standards. When dieting and trying to lose weight, it's always good to realize that there are bigger priorities. Like having some of your best friends birthday cake, ripping shots when you get a promotion or even taking a break from the gym for a much needed Netflix and chill day. Your weight should NOT control how you enjoy your live. Constantly believing that things will be better once you lose a certain amount of weight is the ONE THING that is actually stopping you from getting what you want now. You are good enough now and that will not change if you lose or gain any weight. After being my thinnest my senior year and then gaining 30 pounds and now trying to get back to my senior year body I can seriously relate to this. When I was at my smallest it still wasn't enough for me. Being healthy isn't being the smallest, it's loving your body at any size. And the best part about Melissa is that she doesn't make you feel stupid for stressing about your size. It's normal (unfortunately) to always want to be smaller. It's nice to hear that with age, and a lot of self love, the number on the scale will not be controlling you anymore.