Tips to spice up your romantic life
When comfort gets in through the door, romance walks out the window. This is the case with most couple who have been together for a long time. For a happy, healthy and satisfied life, it is important to keep things exciting in and out of the bedroom. We have a few tips just for that. Try out these ideas to bring the romance back into your life. Get messy together Messy, careless sex usually is just preferred in hotel rooms to avoid the clean-up later on. So romance at home getting a little boring or monotonous doesn’t come as a surprise. Occasionally getting messy together is actually a great idea to add some spice in your bedroom. You could start with edible paint, chocolate sauce, maple syrup, honey or any other sweet and drippy substance. If you have an open space like a private balcony or terrace, this could work great making the clean-up easy as well. Vibrating panties in public This is a very fun (and mildly risky) activity to try. Buy a pair of vibrating panties that are remote operated and make your partner wear them in public. Go for regular chores such as grocery shopping and have a lot of fun making them squirm and struggle to hide the pleasure. Tease them at work The build-up is as important as the main act. So why not pay more attention to it. Often, in busy routines, sex is only limited to getting straight to the point. Instead, start building up from the beginning of the day itself. Dress up sexy and send pictures to your partner at work. Or don’t wear anything at all. Send flirty messages. If they are working from home, or playing a game, or on the phone with someone, just wrap yourself in a towel and flash them. Keep them on the edge for the entire day until they are horny up to the brim. And then just watch them jump right into bed as soon as the day is over. Play competitive games You don’t always need to buy special equipment to keep things exciting. Use regular games with a fun twist. Play scrabble, ping pong, carom, snakes and ladders, etc. For each losing move, one partner has to strip one layer of clothing. We can assure you the game will get super interesting as both the parties struggle to focus on the game instead of the half-naked partner sitting in front of them. There are also sex card games for couples that make playing a lot more fun than you can imagine. Be spontaneous Ditch the planned sex routine. Do it unexpectedly. Change the rooms, timing, etc. Do it when you are least in the mood. Focus more on playing with each other rather than simply the main act of sex. Engage in quickies in public restrooms or dressing rooms. Elevator make-outs are also very thrilling and anxiety-building. Spank their ass in public when they’re unaware and see their reaction. Wake up with a mouthful Waking up getting or giving oral is a very commonly talked about act of sex, but is often the most neglected one in long-term relationships. People wake up tired and too lazy to get into any such action. We suggest you do it at least twice a week and see how your day changed drastically. Get down on your partner while they’re sleeping and don’t stop till they’re up moaning your name. Make it a truly ‘good’ morning. Dial up the kink Many people have misconceptions that sex toys are only pleasurable for girls. Man, you are in for a big surprise! Get some toys for the two of you and your sex life will never be the same again. Dildos, vibrators, penis rings, etc. can be used to add the missing element in your bedroom as you try the foreplay games. The whole point is to keep it exciting and unplanned. Predictability often leads to monotony and boredom. Break that streak and see the fun walking right back into your life.