Sounds about right. I've gone on five dates in the past two months and it's... Horrible? Sure, these girls are attractive, sure they would be fun and get me out of my comfort zone for a while, but there's nothing long term. There's no joking around with them. There's no depth in mind or ideals. They all lived in the "now" with no plans for the future. Do you know how frustrating it is to say a smart-ass remark and not get a retort fired right back at you? There is no wit, there's no sense of humor, no strength of character, no sense of self confidence, merely a transparent mask of needing attention and using people to get what they want. There's no having a discussion, because their minds aren't expansive enough to talk about anything that's not superficial. There's no fire, no drive. Frankly, I'm disappointed and saddened haha At 19-21, are my expectations of thinking a person should constantly be working at improving themselves and their standing, really too high? Is it too much to think that you should always be seeking to learn and understand and expand your mind? Don't survive on superficiality and hope that some opportunity happens to fall into your lap. No, make it happen! Work to better yourself! Bring something to the table, have some self worth. Is it really too much to ask for?