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Q: Here's the thing. I really like this boy. We both get good grades in school, but he's really popular and polite. I'm....not. I'm basically antisocial. I usually am just pretty detached from everyone at school because they really drive me crazy. But since I've liked him it's kind of brought emotions back and made me kind of hang out with people more?
I actually became somewhat popular since liking him. But it's scary because I feel like liking him made me someone I'm not. If he liked me, wouldn't he be liking someone I'm not? Should I just change back or see how this works out?

Leave your advice for this anon in the comments!

Wait what kind of change does she mean....? I mean, people change all the time, right? It's a part of life. If you're still in high school you're gonna change some throughout time, so unless you feel like you're forcing yourself to change FOR him, I wouldnt' worry about it. If you just happen to be changing, dont worry. YOu might just be getting to know yourself even better :)
I would start with what @onesmile said. Secondly, you need to ask yourself a couple of serious questions. -Do you LIKE the person that you are RIGHT NOW? -Is this new you a person that you can live with every day? -Are prepared to stay this way if you start dating, maybe long term? If you wind up answering "no" to any of those questions, you need to consider if this guy is Truly worth what you are doing to yourself. Good luck! :)