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If words of affirmation is your thing, I apologize in advance.

Not everyone has to say it for it to be true. I'm talking about those three words that make some melt while others cringe -- I love you. Like they say, actions speak louder than words and if your man isn't voicing the fact that he loves you, maybe he chooses to show you instead. Some people don't know how to fix their lips to say those three words or some just choose to show their love for someone through the things that they do on a daily basis.
More times than often, we don't even notice the simple gestures our loved ones do for us because we are so busy focusing on the verbal that we overlook the physical. Something as simple as a long hug when you walk through the door or a kiss when you're suffering from morning break at the crack of dawn are obvious signals that the love is there. Keep your ears open, but keep your eyes open just as much because you could easily be overlooking the obvious ways your man loves you without him even saying it.

He Constantly Asks You About Your Day.

Just a simple question that sparks interest in your well being makes it extremely clear that he cares and loves you dearly.

He Remembers The Little Things You Said.

We usually expect people to remember the big things and forget the little things we mention, but if he takes it upon himself to remember them both -- you have yourself a keeper.

He Puts Your Needs First.

Whatever you need or want, he puts you first. He doesn't worry about himself until you are taken care of because that's what people do when they love someone. Obviously.

He respects you and it shows.

Respect is the first sign of loving someone. A person can't possibly love you if they don't respect you. He respects you the way he would expect his father to respect his mother. It's expected.

You're the first person on his mind morning, noon and night.

When he wakes up, he texts you before he even wipes the crust out of his eyes. He texts you during the day just to make sure all is well and before he shuts his eyes to go to sleep, you're the last person he talks to. Sounds like love to me.

Keep a look out for the signs.

Remember, actions always speak louder than words. Let his actions speak for them self.
good things always take time :) I wish you and your lovely lady the best!!! @buddyesd
@jordanhamilton it took us awhile to get to where we are, and we did get frustrated with each other a lot but once you make it past that it's a much smoother time :) I still can't believe it sometimes, I'll look back and think there's no way we should have lasted this long lol
yes, I am still learning that love is patient being a person who struggles daily with patience. I love the fact that you and your wife seem to have a balance. it's always nice to have someone who say it and then someone who shows it. the perfect combination :) @buddyesd
@jordanhamilton for me I'm the one that says it and she's the one that struggles with it lol but she does do little things that tells me she feels the same :) although it did take me some time to figure it out. like you said love is patient. I had to learn that too
sometimes the little things impact you more than the big elaborate ones
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