2 years ago1,000+ Views
September 25th marks a big step in my future and love life, which are basically the same thing.
Today I joined Vingle's "Love & Relationship" Community. Brave of me, right?
With a heavy heart, high hopes, a nervous laugh, I am ready to begin my journey from one to wed.
Vingle has been really eye-opening. Here's what I've learned so far:
@Allischaaff taught be to button down my shirt and to roll up my long sleeve shirt.
Click here to see her whole article.
@Allischaaff also shared some great first-date ideas like finding an ancient love poem at a used book store.
Click here to see her other ideas.
@LizArnone was instrumental in dishing on What Not To Eat on a date. Things like corn, ribs, hot dogs, among other things.
Click here to see the giffy amusement.
@ApeCave gave some thoughtful insight into discovering whether or not there's compatibility between the two of you. Something to ponder when you're on the date.
Click here to read about satisfying the egos.
@PaulisAverage wrote about REALLY BAD FIRST DATE IDEAS. Because, it's never enough to know what to do, you have to know what not to do!
Click here to see why the gas station is for pumping, not dining.
If things don't go so hot on the date, I learned some fun ways to end the date early. Things like LYING. All advice from @PaulisAverage.
Click here to see all the other ways.
Expert in love, @Allischaaff introduced me to the 13 Signs You're Head Over Heels In Love. I love #13. That one is my favorite.
Click here to see all of the 13 signs.
Fast forward. If and when I am in a relationship, I can use more advice from @Allischaaff about how to restore a stale one into something with sparks, and a lot of them, more frequently.
Click here to see her tips.
I haven't gone so far as to join online dating sites. Not sure that's my thing. What do you all think? Should I?
Thank you!
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@marshalledgar a lot of people do match because when people have to pay they take it way more seriously !!!!
2 years ago·Reply
@marshalledgar just my two cents: I didn't like online dating sites/apps, but I think that's more about my personality than anything. *Most* of the guys I met on those sites were looking for one thing only...and that's just not really my style. You have to weed out a lot of frogs, you know? But I guess that's anywhere? So yeah, it's really up to what you're looking for and how you wish to go about it. Good luck, though!! Welcome to the community. ^.^
2 years ago·Reply
this is lovely, @marshalledgar , the biggest adventure is learning new and unique things about yourself and your interest that you never knew before. finding love and going through with relationships is a learning process like crazy.
2 years ago·Reply
thanks for all the tips and warm welcome @ButterflyBlu @MarySEW I appreciate it.
2 years ago·Reply
always ! @marshalledgar the search of love is one of the most universal things.
2 years ago·Reply