Have any of yall felt like this when u really begin to just think about stuff? I'm not trying to throw shade. But honestly...what is this world coming too? It's like so many men (not all but a lot) are making these thots into house wives. The first girl to get married in our group of friends was a huge hoe (sorry for being blunt). When we were in college she was dating this guy (who is now her husband) during our girls' night out we asked her how did she get a boyfriend. We all wanted one and thought she could give us some advice. FYI I will never forget what this girl said...
So she said......
"Girls yall gotta suck that d**k the first date. And bust dat open ASAP!The sooner the better!
We were all speechless.....lol smh. But now that I'm getting older idk maybe she had a point... As the years went one many of us begin lowering our standards and do bascually what everyone else is doing. So....2 more of us is married and they said basically they followed that ratchet advice our friend gave us in college. They wanted to get married really bad. I want to get married to but...Idk about doing that ratchet stuff. Now there is two left not married and that two is including me. We both highly believe in waiting. After my recent breakup with my boyfriend I'm thinking about that night when we were given that advice from our friend. We were not together long, but all he wanted to do was get the cookies. I had to let him go.
Is there any truth to it?
Most of my friends that are engaged and married said they had sex or did something sexual within the first week of dating or the first 2 months. Call me old fashion, but that crazy as heck! Even my guy amigos said that their wife or fiancé gave it up soon..... I'm not saying giving the goods before marriage is wrong. I personally would like to wait until there is some type of relationship. Now a days in my experience men just want to send d**k pics, demand nude pics, get right to getting into the cookie jar before even knowing what my favorite color is.
I'm so confused! I'm don't wanna turn into a bitter woman lol.