I just wanted to say a huge, heartfelt thank you for all your kind words and advice in response to my call for help choosing between my dream job and a very special potential relationship.
It was amazing, the way you all took time out of your day just to help somebody who was hurting. I feel so humbled by how many people were willing to help me with this problem that's been weighing so heavily on my mind... all your words of wisdom meant so much and seriously TRULY helped me in my thinking on this issue.
As for my decision... I think I'll be taking the job. I mean, I've gotta see what's out there, what the world has to offer. I'm young. I gotta take advantage of these opportunities when they come. And as so many of you showed me, if he's really worth it – if it's really, really real – then he'll be willing to do whatever it takes to survive the distance and make this work! I believe in our beautiful connection, how similar we are and how right it feels... something tells me that everything will be okay in the end. :)
You are all such wonderfully lovely people, and I'm so glad that I have such amazing friends here on Vingle :))) <3333
You guys have inspired me to give back. I would really like to start to do a weekly card (as suggested by the wonderful @InPlainSight), a kind of "Ask Alli" where I give other people help with their love dilemmas :) So if you EVER have a problem, or feel weird about something, or need help impressing your crush or what have you, please shoot me a message and I'll make a card tailored to your exact needs :D and it can be anonymous, that's not a problem!! Just wanted you all to know I'm always here if you ever need anything, even just to message and talk. So remember, you're never alone :) <3