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Whether you're single and crushing, in a longterm relationship, or in one of those classic who-even-knows-what-this-is situations with someone, it can be hard to know when it's time to hold on – and when it's time to let go.
I'm all for giving love your best shot, but sometimes it's clear that the best thing – for both people involved – is to end things and move on. It's just a part of life that some relationships aren't meant to be.
If you're unsure whether it's time to move on, see if any of these signs apply to you.

1. The two of you don't feel the same way about each other; one person cares way more than the other.

2. They don't put any effort into the relationship, or into making you happy.

3. They put off meeting your family, and refuse to spend any time with your friends.

4. You constantly have to justify their actions/make excuses for them, to yourself or to others.

5. They value the physical over the mental and the emotional.

6. You feel like you need to convince them to love you. You're not good enough as you are; you have to make an effort to earn their affection.

7. The memories of the past are better than the relationship itself.

8. They consistently hurt you – whether it's verbally, emotionally, or physically.

9. Having them in your life holds you back from growing as a person and becoming the best version of yourself.

10. You have very different ideas of what a relationship should be, and what is expected from a partner.

11. It's always the same old issue, no matter how many times you try to resolve it. Some problems can't be solved.

12. You two rarely have deep, meaningful conversations.

13. They want to control you – who you see, where you go, how you dress, etc.

14. They refuse to commit to you, even though a committed relationship is important to you.

15. They have no goals, ambition, or future plans. You don't need someone like that dragging you down.

16. When the relationship brings you more problems, pain, and sadness than joy.

Relationships should lift us up, not drag us down. Remember:

"Letting go isn't the end of the world – it's the beginning of a new life."

Any other signs it's time to move on?
@itiswhatitis365 Awww such a negative outlook, though :((( I don't agree with that (but it's probably because I'm a textbook optimist LOL) :D My parents have been married for 25 years and they're more in love than ever, and that's the truth :3 I know they're the exception though, and not the rule. But I think you don't have to be a victim to life. You can live the best you can and find your happiness, and I think it's best to do that with the people you love, not isolated and alone, never trusting anyone <3
When they constantly talk about their future which does not include you.
almost 4 years ...he was just wanted my love,caring amd money...He didnt love me back..even i knew it so well i was stupid thinkin he would come to d point n realized n will love me d way i do for him.NOW ...I got tired of waiting I trashed him
nop, a business between a classmate and I.
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