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I never thought i would ever find someone again who could make me smile just by sending me a kiss in a chat box. I never thought i would find someone again whom i would think to message first and smile every time i get a reply. I smile every time i think of you. I never thought i would feel this way again. And i also never thought that person would be someone who knows how much i've been hurt and damaged and still wants to be my friend.
@MelissaMae trust me when I say that I understand. Wholeheartedly. I have struggled with the idea for quite some time. I feel like I was lucky enough to find the one once, but that was taken away from me. So who the hell says I get a second chance? I'm not so sure I do. That being said, it's so so SO important to take time to heal before getting into another relationship. I've read your other cards. I understand what happened - just based on those... and if I understand correctly, it wasn't that long ago, was it? 4 months or so? I know that seems like a long time, but sometimes, it takes a little longer. (It's obviously different for every person!!) It's just going to be a lot harder for you to love someone else - and for him to love you - until you learn how to love yourself again. Trust your heart and take your time. Make yourself the #1 priority. Talk to the people you trust about this. If you have no one to talk to, I would be more than happy. :) I know it seems desperate and over right now, but it isn't, sweetie. I promise it isn't. You Are going to be okay. And at some point, you are going to meet someone who treats you the way you deserve to be treated, and then some! Hang in there!!! *Hugs*
@MelissaMae Its so hard for guys, especially younger guys to understand the subtlety of conversation with a woman, especially when it comes to the different varieties of 'nothing' being wrong. I struggle with it myself sometimes. Hope the right one comes along soon for you
馃槀 omg that is the best typo EVER. 馃挏 I know what you mean, though. It's hard because you wonder if it could become more...and there's only one way to find out for sure, you know. As for age. That's a hard one for me. I think age is just a darn number. Don't get me wrong - I'm absolutely not in the market for to raise a kid into a man. (I already have one son!) But I've met a couple of guys that are a couple of years younger than me, and way more mature than men five-ten years older than them. So even though I Very much prefer a man older than me, I would consider a relationship with someone younger if I thought he could be the Right guy. A good friend of our family is married to a man ten years younger than her. They've been married for 25 years! We have to keep an open mind, I reckon. Do what YOU think is best!!!
@MelissaMae Way too long could have been a different conversation altogether
@ButterflyBlu we are not together. it isnt love. its just infatuation and hes way too long for me. i know better by now than to get involved with someone just because i get infatuated with them. that only ends in tears.
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