The urgency is real. Maybe a little too real.
We've all felt it before. Waiting for him to text you back after what feels like months. When in reality it's only been about a week, which is still long ago. All types of thoughts cross your mind. Did you do something or say something that might of rubbed him the wrong way? You constantly contemplate texting him. The idea of not speaking is driving you insane. It was all good just a week ago. What the heck happened? Nobody knows, not even him. Ladies, we aren't the only ones who get in our feelings.
We often forget that guys have feelings too and sometimes they just need a little space. We hate those five letters, but it's the truth. Give it some time, he'll eventually come around. But whatever you do, don't text him first. There are so many things you can be doing to keep your mind off sending that text that will only lead you to question more if he doesn't reply. So, to free your mind and keep busy until he comes to his senses, keep scrolling to see what you could be doing rather than texting him.
Catching up on some of you favorite shows.
You've been so caught up in old boy that you're extremely behind on all of your favorite series. Set aside some time and see what Olivia Pope has up her sleeve this season.
Go get your nails and toes done.
Yes, you two usually go together, but sometimes it's nice to do things on your own. You need a break and that nail has been chipped for far too long.
Have a night out with your girls.
You've been neglecting some of your favorite ladies for your man and that's not cool. Make it up to them with an intimate dinner at one of your favorite restaurants.
Catch up on some much needed sleep.
Waiting up all times of the day and night for a text message or phone call can be exhausting. Those bags under your eyes are not Chanel, honey. Get yourself some much needed sleep. You need it.
Go on a mini vacation.
Getting away is good. We all need a vacation every now and then. This doesn't mean you have to drop a huge amount of money on a plane ticket. Sometimes visiting family is all the vacation we need. Give your mind time to regroup and focus on what's most important.
If you don't thank me, you'll at least thank yourself.
Give these five things a try and forget about the guy.