Intimacy is meant to be sacred.
Unfortunately, we messed that up along time ago. We're so used to letting anyone in, that we've become immune to doing so. We fall for the first face we see and before we know it the rest is history. If we took the time to get to know people, as much as people take the time being intimate, I'm pretty sure the idea of love would be a lot stronger. You don't have to be religious to know that sex is meant to be shared between two people who truly care about each other. In Biblical terms, a man and wife. We've erased that idea from our minds and lay down with the first person who deems their worthy. Just to find out a couple months later, they're gone and it's back to phase one. Your feelings got involved and for that person who got away, you were nothing more than a quick thrill.
They tell us to use contraceptives, but they never mention the contraceptives needed to protect your mind from the hurt and the memories that constantly haunt you after you get your heart broken. That's why getting to know a person and waiting is always your best option. Even if you don't wait until marriage, at least wait until you're sure. Sometimes that sure thing, isn't the best thing. The video [seen below] talks about what we often times keep mum about. When you let someone in physically, you're also letting them in mentally and when the physical is gone -- sadly, the mental is still left there lingering. Guard your heart, guard your mind and resist the urge. You're worth the wait.
Feedback on this video would be awesome!