What's saddening is people getting mad when you try and relate to them if it's not exactly the same but then they constantly compare themselves with others creating bitter feelings. What a nasty paradoxial cycle which is painful to see or be a part of.
Simple words of wisdom which can be accumulated from this logic: Don't make assumptions about others. Don't compare yourself with others. Don't put yourself in a box. Don't put others in a box. Don't take life so seriously all the time. ENJOY life and each others company. It isn't much and it isn't anything new But it can be rather helpful to remember along the way.