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I'm fascinated by the ideas held by different cultures around the world. Despite the world "getting smaller" through increasing globalization, and despite the fact that we're all, on some level, just humans – we still hold some vastly different beliefs, depending on what culture(s) we've been raised in.
That's why this article by Ioana Aboumitri is particularly interesting. A woman with a beautifully varied background, Ioana has spent time living in many cultural milieus. She's part Samoan, part Egyptian, and part Lebanese – and on top of these different cultures, she now lives in Canada. So she's experienced vastly different cultural expectations when it comes to health and beauty.
A survivor of eating disorders, Ioana has been very personally affected by these conflicting ideas of beauty and health – indeed, some of the same pressures we all face, even when we come from a single culture.
But despite the confusion she still faces on a daily basis about what beauty truly looks like, Ioana writes with true clarity about how we must go about facing these pressures. She describes herself as "a passionate advocate of self-love, especially in our youth." She's right on the money – I think the only way to confront the questions she talks about is to love yourself.

Love yourself better. Stronger. More.

I felt comforted just reading her words, because I could see that she was wrestling with the same questions that have been on my mind. If you too want to know you're not alone in your struggle to feel beautiful, read her post here.
@allischaaff are you calling me old :(
@allischaaff I have said it before and I'll say it again, beauty is way more about what is on the inside and way less about what is on the outside. I truly think womens magazines in general do a really bad job of reinforcing the right messages to women. From a guy's perspective, and I admit we're not all the same, a woman with a smart, kind, warm caring heart beats a supermodel with an attitude problem every day of the week. I'm not saying all supermodels or 'conventionally attractive' girls have attitude problems, but that for me, I need someone I can hold a conversation with, who can stimulate me mentally and has a warm heart. They are the things I would choose.
I was trying to say you have a wise point of view, and if people are mature in their way of thinking (not age-wise lololol) they will agree with you. But now it just sounds like i think you're a crotchety old man...
NO. Omg i just realized I used wise and mature in almost the same sentence... not what I was trying to say!!! XD @InPlainSight
I'm glad to hear that @InPlainSight :) I really love getting your input on this stuff. Because no matter what magazines and media tell us, it's the thoughts of our real friends that matter. <3 You're very wise, and I like to think that lots of people (mature ones, anyway) think like you do ^_^
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