Every time I show a picture of my bias, or any male Kpop star for that matter, to somebody, I get the same response. "He looks so … pretty" and the tone is condescending and judgmental 99.9% of the time. I don't get it. Sometimes when I ask what people mean they're like "you know what I mean" or "ya know just… pretty". Nobody bats an eye lash when a random guy on the street or an American celebrity dresses nicely and clearly spent time on their hair, but as soon as it's a Kpop star, good hygiene and style becomes like weird or taboo??? And I mean yes Kpop stars are generally really good looking or "pretty", I cannot disagree but I don't know why it's said like a bad thing, cause I mean it's pretty great. I don't understand why people need to point out things in Kpop stars that wouldn't otherwise matter to them. Sorry for the rant, sometimes it just really bothers me, is it just me who has experienced this?