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So this is my only offline friend, I don't know what to do or think right now. We have known each other for 2 years, he has a girlfriend whom his mom and sister says is a b*tch (actual words that the sister said) she doesn't like him talking to other females and yet she will flirt with every dude. I like him, and if I could I would date him, but all that stuff plus he lives 2 or 3 hours away. please can someone help.
Hmm... If you really like him, go for it. At least truthfully ask and you will get an answer. If it works out, awesome. If not, you can move on and have learned that experience. Better to try than to not. @allischaaff @jordanhamilton @alywoah chime in please.
ohhhhh, well that changes everything. he obviously asked you for a reason. maybe he's into you as well, but as long as he's in a relationship I wouldn't pry on the situation. just because it's the right thing to do. what's meant to be, will be.
I am not really sure how to answer this, but I will just say what I gotta say: It's not wrong for you to have feelings for him. And it's not wrong for him to have feelings for your. However, he's is in a relationship so that means there needs to be boundaries -- no matter how much people don't like his girl friend. Because at the end of the day, he likes her enough to stay with her. I don't necessarily think it's wrong to be friends with someone you may have a crush on, who's dating someone else, but that means there needs to be serious boundaries and respect. If he wants to pursue something much deeper than a friendship with you, you'll know. As for now, be a friend, or if it hurts too much to be just his friend, distance yourself and move on.
@Arellano1052 I don't know, I do like him non aesthetically. I think I'm just gonna be friends with him and see where it goes.
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