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So this is my only offline friend, I don't know what to do or think right now. We have known each other for 2 years, he has a girlfriend whom his mom and sister says is a b*tch (actual words that the sister said) she doesn't like him talking to other females and yet she will flirt with every dude. I like him, and if I could I would date him, but all that stuff plus he lives 2 or 3 hours away. please can someone help.
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I am not really sure how to answer this, but I will just say what I gotta say: It's not wrong for you to have feelings for him. And it's not wrong for him to have feelings for your. However, he's is in a relationship so that means there needs to be boundaries -- no matter how much people don't like his girl friend. Because at the end of the day, he likes her enough to stay with her. I don't necessarily think it's wrong to be friends with someone you may have a crush on, who's dating someone else, but that means there needs to be serious boundaries and respect. If he wants to pursue something much deeper than a friendship with you, you'll know. As for now, be a friend, or if it hurts too much to be just his friend, distance yourself and move on.
I wouldn't do anything unless I was certain he liked ME and not the attention my crush brings him.