2 years ago
alywoah
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"You Were Fine Fat"
When I was at my highest weight, I wasn't just just fat -- I was tried. I also became painfully aware of the different body issues I ran into.

My knees began to hurt. A hilly walk got me far more exhausted than it should of have. I had excruciating back pain. I felt sluggish, weak, tired, and uncomfortable.

I think people need to realize that 'compliments' like "you were fine when your were bigger" or "you should have stayed thick. Muscular girls are ugly." You need to remember those are not compliments at all.

If you were a larger woman who lost weight and is now fit and active, you can probably relate.


Here's some of the shitty things I've heard:

"You were beautiful thick. You didn't have to lose weight..."

And now being fit and healthy -- I'm still pretty! Thanks...

"If you bench press, you'll lose your t*ts."

Boy, bye. You're just jelly I can out bench you.

"If you stayed thick, I would have dated you."

Oh god. Why didn't you tell me this before? I'd totally would have given up my fitness journey to deal with your sh*t...

"Lifting weights is making you too muscular"

I'm sorry...did you think I am doing this for you? Because I am not. But if you want to do a flex competition, I'd totally do that with you.

"Why did you hate your body when you were fat?"

Who said I did? I just hated the knee pain, the hard breathing, the back pain, the inability to go on a casual jog without feeling like I was dragging several bowling balls along with me. I know I can rock the thick look. I just feel better fit.

"You're too skinny"

Great, so I am either too fat or too skinny. Either way, you suck and should keep your comments to yourself.

This is an example of a nice thing to say.

To like anyone. You're welcome.
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I'm a thick dude. I like any woman who isn't judgemental or has an attitude. Thick is awesome. More to hold on to. So many people won't even give a thick person the time of day. Like their life is so good....yeah, right. Work that body GF
2 years ago·Reply
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2 years ago·Reply
It's just as bad when people constantly tell you you're already skinny, therefore you don't need to lose weight. I'm always like "I don't work out to lose weight, I work out to get stronger! Plus its great for stress relief." I'm all for everyone having their own reasons for working out & exercising, I just hope that it's for themselves & not solely focused on aiming for a body like one of those Victoria's secret models. @alywoah kudos to you & your motivation & your constant fitness posts because they're so awesome! I've actually had friends who admitted they were always insecure about their size but the biggest push to start working out were the physical side effects of having some extra padding--at the end of the day they could care less about their shape now, they're just happy about how much fitness has transformed their health & their attitude. :)
2 years ago·Reply
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2 years ago·Reply
just my thing is when a girl says she's fat when she's pure muscle
2 years ago·Reply