PrincessUnicorn
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How To Deal With Bullies: Kpop Version

Whether we can admit it or not we've all been bullied in our lifetime. Its part of the fangirl life. But here are some tips that should help.

Ignore Them

Do not show bullies that you feel hurt and they've succeeded in affecting you. Walk away.  The bully wants attention and if you show them that they are emotionally hurting you, they will get more pleasure out of doing it.

Find Your Inner Strength

Sometimes we think they can take everything we have as a person away from us. Believe that you are stronger than they are, because deep down you are stronger than they are and stronger than they ever will be.

Stand Up To Them

Now I'm not saying to just go full on fangirl crazy on them but stand up for yourself. Don't let yourself be walked on. Confront them and stop it. (Just make sure you play some Kpop before that gets you hype lol)

Rise Above Them

Bullies are just cowards deep down. Don't feel threatened about them, feel sorry for them. Live you're life and don't waste your time and energy on them.
I hate bullies and that's why I don't tolerate them at all. So hopefully these steps will help out if you have a problem or have a friend who's having trouble :) ❤Dedicated to @LaurenStrayhorn
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Never be ashamed of who you are and what you like! There is nothing wrong with being unique. If someone makes fun of you for what you like stare them straight in the eye and say "so?" That's what I do. I own my love for kpop and everything else about me. I've had to shut people down a lot for teasing me for liking kpop. It is nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed by.
2 years ago·Reply
This is absolutely perfect! I feel that bullies are just people who are upset with the fact that they have discovered how infiring Kpop is😂😂but all jokes aside bullies are awful and I do not tolerate any form
2 years ago·Reply
@Chrissy2009 A lot of my family doesn't understand it either. Some worse than others. I started treating it like they are any other people. If they start teasing me I look at them and ask them why they care what I listen to. I don't force them to listen to it unless they are in my car. Then it's my territory and they just have to get over it. It's something that I like and makes me happy so they can back off. I've done this family members, friends, strangers.
2 years ago·Reply
How do you rise above if it's your family that's doing it? I totally love kpop. I'm always listening to it and it makes me feel good. when my family's around and they ask what I'm listening to and they just roll their eyes and tell me to grow up. I know I'm old enough that they shouldn't bother me like this but shouldn't family support you no matter what. this is something I love. This spoke to me and I just couldn't handle it anymore. Thanks!
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