beautifully written and BTW yeah majority of people lie to make others feel better...... I've met one maybe two in my entire life that have actually been bluntly honest. I for one am bluntly honest and ocassionaly gently honest which is the reason people have gotten mad at me and why I expect honesty in return. we all change and we all lie about some things but we should be as honest as possible and understand change is good. I've killed 3 versions of myself and grew after each time learning and escaping the shell of who I once was.