One of the most painful parts of being dehumanized and discarded by the narcissist is how he then sweeps you under the rug and goes on like it never happened and you dont exist. It is traumatic. Being swept under the rug after being dehumanized and discarded by someone you loved can send the most sain person over the edge. A narcissist will NEVER!!! take responsibility for the way he treats other people or how he makes them feel. He will go on with his seemingly perfect life being loved and adored leaving you to suffer alone in silence. That pain can be unbearable. I exposed the evil that was done to me and even though no one cared or believed and they ignored and blamed me which only added to my pain, Im still glad i spoke. I dont regret it for a moment. It's my voice and my right to speak. Our lives begin to end the day that we keep silent about things that matter. -Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.