that first one is so true!! i will change on a dime when ive had enough. i loved a pathological narcissist and i was so good and devoted, kind and forgiving, strong and supportive, almost never complained, didnt play the victim. i loved as much as a woman ever could love. but when my breaking point came, he was cowering and begging me to undo what i had done to him. never again will i cast my pearls To the pigs.