I couldn't decide which selfie lol These are all within the past... 2-3 months? I was going to use different ones, but I figured I have a shirtless profile pic, so that should allay any other possible curiosity ;D Hahaha oh sheesh. I feel like a douche putting that, but if we're introducing ourselves, I may as well showcase my type of humor and awkwardness, because that's me. I'm incredibly awkward and I dabble in every type of humor possible. I'll sometimes say and do things just to see how people react, because it's all about figuring people out, to me. Sometimes, it's difficult to tell when I'm not serious. I like to see what people react to, and how they react. People are puzzling creatures, and I like to understand that which I do not. I've been told a few times that I treat life like chess. Everything is calculated, everything is setting up my triumph over what I challenge I set myself against. And I suppose that's accurate. I'm a thinker and I prefer to look at things in many different ways, and weigh out the possibilities and probabilities to come up with my best moves. After that, I'll factor in what it is that I want. Aaaaand, I tend to try and explain too much sometimes lol If you can't tell, I'm a multi-page texter, but I still consider myself a horrible conversationalist! And I often speak my mind too bluntly, causing unintentional offense or pain to people. All Perks of having me in your life. I'd rather you know than not know. I expect the same respect back. *cough, cough* Anywho, onto the card! My name is Brandon Arellano. Pleasure to make your acquaintance!
It's extremely unfair to have us choose a crush. There are so many attractive, likable, orgasmic people. I'll have to choose my number one: Lily Collins. I have, about, 10 honorable mentions, but I'll refrain lol
I am single and emotionally available, however, I do have my soul mate and a mother. We're a package deal lmao XD If my soul mate and/or mother don't like you, bye Felicia! I'm kinda kidding about my mother, but I do value her opinion, and rightly so. But, I'm a lot more serious about my soul mate. I've had troubles with women being jealous of my soul mate, thinking we're a lot more than that, and they find her threatening. She's a recently divorced, newly lesbian who lives thousands of miles away who has a girlfriend! We aren't interested in a Romantic relationship with each other. I'd gladly choose my best friend/soul mate over any relationship. And I have. Of course, if the relationship gets serious, then my priorities will change. But if we're just talking or dating, you have very little say in my life. I also have @ButterflyBlu <3. If Stacey and Rob don't approve, I'm sorry ;p
I... Have had quite a few really romantic moments in my life. It's just the way I am. I put everything into relationships. And, as I've said before, I'm a helplessly hopeless romantic. And sometimes, it gets returned. At least for a little while. Basically, my freshman year in high school, my girlfriend put a bow on herself and gave herself to me as a gift, because I told her all I wanted for Christmas was her, was us. It was raining that day, too. So, after we got out of our respective practices, we tenderly held and kissed each other in the rain, on the basketball courts after everybody else had left, alone in our little bubble of happiness.... It wasn't sexual. Just really loving and impactful. It's not one of the flashier ones, but it's one of my fondest memories of high school and from my past relationships. Within the past month, I wrote out this story as well as some important background information on a person's card in L&R, but I completely forgot whose it was, but that full, summarized version is out there somewhere, and with it, the reason why that night of December 19th, 2013, was so special and touching.
Lastly... What do I expect out of a partner... Sheesh, where to start? I'm not the simplest of people, and I'm not exactly the most outwardly emotional people either, nor do I vocalize a lot of stuff. For me, I need somebody more outgoing and spontaneous than me. Somebody who understands the comfort zone, but who also knows when to pull me out of it. Somebody who understands the concept of recharging, who understands that people-ing is really exhausting. Somebody who I can have comfortable silence with. Nonverbal communication is so important and telling. Somebody who isn't addicted to their phone. Somebody who isn't a social media whore. Loyalty, honesty, spontaneity, practical, logical, emotional, intelligent, sarcastic, dorky, touchy (like, cuddles and holding hands), understanding, slightly hard headed, perverted (lol I'll explain this one day) and wantingto improve and advance themselves (and actively working on it.). Oh, and someone who doesn't go by gender roles. I cook, I clean, I wash, I decorate for holidays. And furthermore, I enjoy it! Um, and not hiding behind labels. =_= That one may step on some toes, and if it does, then we aren't compatible anyways lol I say a lot worse stuff than expecting people to not claim to have depression and be bipolar and/or whatever every single kid nowadays has, and proceed to hide behind it and not take responsibility for themselves and their actions. That's not me saying they don't exist, though. Don't get it twisted lol ;*
Well, this was certainly interesting XD I hope you enjoyed this journey into my mind! I look forward to seeing yours if you haven't made it, as I've already seen a few! ^.^ @AlloBaber @VeronicaArtino @shannonl5 @NerukaWong @alywoah @barbiemoo1 @buddyesd @thePinkPrincess @ChriSingularis @jcl4rks0n @nicolejb @Arellano1052 @RaquelArredondo @AprilMorales @luna1171 @JPBenedetto @deefran @RogueLeigh @InPlainSight @MukulSharmaa @ButterflyBlu @myguardian @sarahpjane @MarkoKaRiambo @danidee @Gacrus @MissB82 @jordanhamilton @DeepakAswal