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If you know me, you I love a challenge.

The ever so lovely @AlloBaber was one of the first to tag me in this challenge and I can't wait to get to work. I guess this will be a bit of an introduction to formally introduce myself to all my fellow lovers. I'm sure you constantly see my cards in the love and relationship community, but not too many of you know too much about me. Well, here is your chance to find out a few facts. I will be sure to keep things short and sweet. So, here goes nothing.

1.) Selfie

This picture says it all. I'm the queen of selfies. Literally. If you don't believe me, well, oh well.

2.) Your Dream Crush

This one was a bit challenging, but there are so many people I could think of to fall underneath this category. My young mind would tell me to choose someone like Drake or Bryson Tiller because I love them both, a lot. But, the mature woman would tell my conscious to choose a man like Gil Scott-Heron. One of the many men that I look up to and so wish I had the opportunity of meeting. From his wisdom, to his charm and amazing deep voice, to well, of course, his beard. It doesn't get too much better.

3.) Current Status

I've been single for five years now and I sometimes forget. Although I've dabbled in the world of dating since, I can't say I dislike being single. It gives me ample time to learn to love and focus on myself before I give anyone else the advantage of doing so. I have my days, just like anyone else.

4.) Most Romantic Memory Or Story.

Well, I honestly can't say I have one and that is the honest truth. Ask me again in a decade. I'll have plenty. I hope.

5.) What Do You Look For In A Partner?

When it comes to the obvious, I look for a guy who is honest, loyal, has goals and dreams, an amazing sense of humor, loving with a splash of chivalry [yes, guys can still be chivalrous] and if we aren't talking about the obvious of course I would say, a beard because well, beards.

This was exciting!

Please forgive me if you have already been tagged, but I will go ahead tag: @ButterflyBlu @shannonl5 @buddyesd @LAVONYORK @amobigbang @itiswhatitis365 @LizArnone @paulisadroid @Bekka
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awe you are wonderful and gorgeous. I think we are both self in Queens but how but you rule the north and me the south...just kidding how about we take the world on together
Awww thank you so much @InPlainSight that means a lot!! :)
Yes!!!! I'm all for taking on the world with endless selfies and thank you so much for the sweet words @VeronicaArtino
I support your support of the beards! ^.^ Man, I was crushed when Gil Scott-Heron died. I love A Very Precious Time. 馃挏 You're right: not much better. I Adore what you said about being single and I couldn't agree more. I was with my husband for many years (all through high school) before we were married and then we that time together. Since he's passed, I've been single for 6 years. I've dated here and there, but nothing really long term. I just started dating a new guy about 6 weeks ago and that's exciting, but point it, I've noticed that the me that's dating now versus the me that started dating 5 years ago is SUCH a different person. You know. I needed that time to re-meet myself because pre-marriage dating Stacey is not the same person as post-marriage, widowed, single mom dating Stacey. I didn't even KNOW this human being. Some days, I still don't. (Lol. I am not EVEN joking.) So yeah, I loved this: "...time to learn to love and focus on myself before I give anyone else the advantage of doing so." Awesome, Jordan!
Awww thanks for commenting Stacey! It's nice to know that you're a supporter of beards and GIL SCOTT!!! That's so cool. You don't meet too many Gil fans these days :) <3 I totally get what you mean about re-meeting yourself and I respect you so much for that. Sometimes we just need time to reflect and get ourselves situated before we can truly focus on anyone else. 6 years sounds like a long time, but I know time flew by for you. I wish you the best in your dating endeavors and although it all feels new to you, take it day by day. I know if it's meant to be, you will definitely know! Dating is exciting, so enjoy yourself and don't forget to do what makes YOU happy at the end of the day. Thanks so much for sharing :) @ButterflyBlu