This challenge was floating around and @nicolejb (@TessStevens)
suggested I give it a go. So here I am, blah-blahing about my Ideal type.
To be honest It's hard to think of an "Ideal" because I'm not exactly a settling down type. I enjoy being single with 'special' friends.
I'll call this my "It would be nice if you had at least a few of these things
so maybe one day when pigs fly- my arse can settle down," card. :P
As told by Sanji.... lol
The key to my heart has always been through my stomach.
If you can cook, and love to do it - you're doing something VERY right in my eyes.
Humor and Crazy Awesome funny Friends:
Anyone that knows me understands I value humor and friendship.
So this "ideal" type better have both. Funny friends and Loyal friends.
If you have barely any friends and hide in your room, chances are you aren't for me.
Also if you aren't a barrel of monkeys yourself than it just isn't going to click.
Something that's important to me is physical connections. No I'm talking about in the sack, I'm talking about the little things that a lot of relationships lack. Those subtle gestures like touching a shoulder, or a kiss on the cheek. Playing with hair while watching tv, or just holding hands. A physical connection that is gentle and constantly lets the other know how you feel without saying a word. I'm demanding in this area.
Crying- tears of Joy or otherwise:
Crying is a plus. If you can actually let loose some of those harbored tears
and not act like a wall of ice - then you've got my vote. So have a good cry.
I've got plenty of tissues and stuff to talk about.
A smile that can make my heart skip a beat. Something to come home too, or welcome home. A smile that bring light to a dreary mood. A smile that can make me laugh. A Smile goes a long way and this is something I really look for.
Dressed to Kill:
Someone with a sense of personal style. I'm not too picky in what people wear, but if you can wear all sorts of things and manage to look great in them then brownie points for you. Also not conforming to other people's view of style is always a plus. Being yourself is key. Nothing wrong with having a gorgeous partner to drag around and show-off.
I especially Dig uniform type clothing. Must be the Cosplayer bug.
Quiet and Contemplative:
While I enjoy funny and loud people, I think having someone that possessed the 'thinking' bug wouldn't be so bad. Someone who has those moments where they're in chill mode and just seem so darn calm. You always wonder what they're thinking. I like those types. I want to pry inside their thoughts and figure out just what's going on. xD
There is nothing more attractive than believing in yourself and what you are doing with your life. Everyone stumbles on occasion but getting back up and continuing to fight for what you want is a very important trait. I find this hard to do myself sometimes, but I do it because it's something I believe in.
I'm honestly not remotely embarrassed about this. I'm an extremely perverse person in both humor and other things - so you better be able to keep up. Just saying. :P
Zoro here will give the last bit.... And that is
If you aren't a family person, we are not getting anywhere.
I have a teenage son, and though he'll be grown soon that doesn't erase the fact that I'm a Parent and I love my Kid AND my entire family. My ideal better too. I'll also be loving their family like my own. It's a done deal.