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How To Get Over A Breakup With Oasis

"Step outside the eye of your mind / don't you know you might find / a better place to play."
Yes. Breakups happen. They happen quickly and they happen often. They can last one hour or one year. They are unpredictable and they change each time they occur. Different people cause different emotions, they do different amounts of damage.

So where can we find the commonality in dealing with breakups if each one is unique?

We can figure out how the hell to deal with them.

"Don't Look Back In Anger" is a song that most people associate with losing love. It's a classic Oasis tune that provides you with all the grit and glamor of Brit Pop's finest, but it also brings up a lot of great points regarding break-ups and the relationships they can alter.
The Gallaghers have had their fair share of breakups, with women...with themselves, with their band...and all in public. So of course, they'd write one of the best breakup - - makeup songs ever.
"So I start a revolution from my bed
'Cos you said the brains I had went to my head.
Step outside, summertime's in bloom
Stand up beside the fireplace
Take that look from off your face
You ain't ever gonna burn my heart out
And so Sally can wait,
she knows it's too late as we're walking on by
Her soul slides away,
but don't look back in anger\
I heard you say"
Sometimes we have to take the blame on ourselves, and chalk these failed relationships up to a misaligning of views or constant miscommunication. We've got to understand that there is so much more to live for than other people. Remembering who we are on our own can be scary, but we can't let others judge out our spirits, or as the song says, "You ain't ever gonna burn my heart out."
The fault is ours, and though we love to worry and lament because our love is gone, or our actions put us in a compromising position, we have to remember to not look back in anger. Things happen for a reason, and who knows what doors would have stayed closed had things gone differently.
We can't change the past, but we can't let that effect our future either. Take a page from Oasis' book, "don't look back in anger, at least not today."
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SERIOUSLY! That's amazing. @VeronicaArtino and I really really loved that poem you wrote! It's very well written, but aside from that it's a really great representation of your heart and where you're at. Honest art is always the best. I'm glad you got inspired. I love Oasis, they're one of my favorite groups of all time. Beautiful moving poetry.
@TessStevens I so very much love that song. It was actually what I was listening to when I made my decision and then wrote my poem. Thanks for sharing and as ever so much wisdom and thoughts in your words.
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