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Reality Star Embraces Her Love Handles Proving Size Doesn't Matter

Love yourself girl or nobody will.

That's exactly what reality star, Mar Ortiz decided to do when she posted a selfie to social media that showed off her stomach and rolled down leggings. Talk about confident and courageous -- and most of all beautiful. It's not everyday that you will find a woman as fearless as Mar.
Because of societies ridiculous standards women often hide behind layers trying their best to hide their true beauty. Whoever said big equates to disgusting is out of their mind. Curvy is beautiful.
Mar left a positive caption underneath her photograph saying:
"Why does size matter? Big or small...I love my LOVE handles! I don't care about having abs or eating a salad everyday. I do believe in taking healthier days and balance. I #celebratemysize everyday! I love my curves and body. If I want to lose weight it will be a personal choice and it shouldn't matter to anyone else but me. #imnoangel #plusisequal #effyourbeautystandars #bigwomenbiglove"
If society only realized that not every woman is built the same people would be more open to body positivity and although we have come slightly far when it comes to putting an end to fat shaming, we still have some ways to go. Thanks to Mar we are making more progress each day.
Ladies, let's put our insecurities to the side and begin to love ourselves -- flaws and all. A couple rolls doesn't make you any less beautiful than the next woman. If Mar's fearless selfie can receive over 80,000 likes, than you're capable of doing the same of so much more. Fellas, if you can appreciate a woman who is a size 4 than you should be to appreciate a woman who is also a size 24. Numbers mean nothing, personality says it all.
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It's weird. I'm more confident as a big girl than I ever was skinny.
@LAVONYORK no brain washing here....figures come and go, personality lasts forever.
I hear that @gatorchick96! You should definitely be confident :)
LOL. You guys are something else @InPlainSight @jordanhamilton
You're welcome & yes even beside a fluffy girl @TerrecaRiley@TerrecaRiley
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