Haha I had my first kiss in the 8th grade. Boy was I nervous ha there was this girl a rather cute girl whom could kiss and there I was goofy and shy never kissed a girl and she wanted to make out haha. In the end I was alright and today I'm a great kisser. What I'm trying to say is don't worry about age or how long it takes, but do make sure that when the time comes you enjoy it. Be it a kiss or making love or damn just having straight sex, these gestures we crave from others have meaning far greater than the tingling numbing sensation we get off another. A first time should be slow gentle and full of emotion. Not something to just get out of the way. Take the time to admire your partners touch taste they way they close their eyes or notice the sound your lips make after parting from eachother.