I feel you, @Adrienpie. It can take a while. I just met mine and I'm 23. The guys I dated in high school, in college... that all came to nothing. But when you least expect it, finally something sticks – and everything else in the past is more than worth it. The hurt, the difficulty, the time spent alone... it's so true, like movies and clichés will all tell you: those things don't matter anymore, because you've found someone who makes you so happy that the sadness disappears.