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Friends play an important role in a person’s life. They encourage when one is sad, they entertain when one is lonesome, and they listen when one has problems. There are varieties of friends: co-workers, social workers, schoolmates, and much more. Each type of friends is helpful in one way or the other. Co-workers could help solve problems and stress gain in the workplace. Friends from the community widen one’s prospective by introducing new people from different areas. Friends that grew up with would share the happiness and sadness one might has. However, friends that grew up with might not always be the best friends because they could faking it or been concealing some secrets. So, it is very important for one to recognize all the friends s/he has because good friends are hard to find. Good friends should not be measured only base on the time spent together. With good friends, one is able to have a more meaningful life. It is very difficult to have a definition of a good friend for everyone to agree upon. Since everyone has different personalities, friends one looks for could be very different. Nonetheless, there are some common characteristics shared among most of the definitions. The three main qualities that define a good friend are loyal, understanding, and encouraging. Loyal is one of the main qualities one looks for when searching for friends. Trusts are gain by having trustworthy friends. At lease once in a person’s life, one would encounter a friend that likes to share secrets that belong to others with his/her friends. This could be very entertaining for his/her friends, yet the person with the secret would feel irritated. With no doubts, one would not desire to have a blabbermouth person as a friend; except one wants to spread rumours around or wants to find out other people’s secrets. So, it would be most comfortable to tell secrets to someone that is trustworthy.
I definitely agree with the qualities you say are most important in a friend! They've gotta be loyal, understanding, and encouraging, for sure. But to that list, I would add able to laugh :) all my best friends are the people I feel I can be silly with and play around sometimes, and then be serious and talk about life and my problems at other moments. There are also many different levels of friendship! Some are good for having fun, others will support you through anything. Bottom line: we need our friends. <3
I agree with all of this!! Not only from a personal level, but from a pure happiness level in science. Developing and fostering relationships is a huge component to happiness. I teaches you love, empathy, and care. You aren't just living for yourself anymore. and I love that! thank you so much for this thoughtful card!
@nicolejb You r most welcome madam