nicolejb
2 years ago10,000+ Views
Every person has a set of "deal breakers" for a relationship. These aren't just the "his feet smell" or "he doesn't know how to cook" but like real, serious, GET OUT RIGHT NOW stuff. And personalities have a lot to do with what's "ok" and what's "not."
Using MBTI, I picked out the top deal breakers for personalities!

Dishonesty/Disloyalty

INTJ, ENTJ, INFJ
These personality types seek truth, understanding and kindness. Because they seek that, they also expect it. They are extremely devoted to making things work when they are *in it* so your partner must also be open and honest with you.

Sets Limits on Freedom

ENFP, ENFJ, ESFP, ESTP
When a relationship is "limiting" to your needs, desires, or dreams you tend to back out. Your ideal partner is supportive with whatever you chose and isn't the type that will "tie you down." So anytime someone says, "I don't want you do that, or try that." That's not for you.

Close-mindedness

INFP, INTP, ENTP, ISFJ, ISTP
Your type is the extremely open to new perspectives and trying new things. If your partner isn't that way too, you get big red flags. You like having in-depth conversations about things, but if your partner doesn't respect new thoughts, that's a HUGE red flag for you.

Unwillingness to Commit

ESFJ, ESTJ, ISTJ
You are the loyal, ever-giving type. Once you are in a relationship, you are in it for the long haul. And if someone is hesitant about being just with you? No thanks. You feel you deserve someone that is willing to commit to being just with you.
ISTJ: @Swhitta
Not sure what type you are? Take the Quiz <<HERE>> and report back! Ask and I can tag you:)

How'd I do this time everyone?! Did I miss another major deal-breaker?!

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@InPlainSight well close-mindedness isn't my deal breaker soooooo. jk SAME @Eclare thoughtful and interesting conversation is really important to me. I know right?! @RosaArgueta I once had a bf that wasn't too keen on my studying abroad for a semester, GIANT RED FLAG. let me do what's best for me, ya know?
@nicolejb I am very honest and very faithful lol that's how i like it
What would you say is the biggest one for you? @buddyesd Totally @EasternShell I think closemindedness is a close second for me too. I want to be able to talk about things and if the person isn't open to listening, that's not cool! @Alcides13 yeah also sounds like you are an honest person! so that's probably why it's important to you too!
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on my screen @eclare is on top of me....sorry @eclare 😲
I grow bored quickly if the person has a closed mind and isnt interested in deep talking/thinking..
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