nicolejb
2 years ago10,000+ Views
Every person has a set of "deal breakers" for a relationship. These aren't just the "his feet smell" or "he doesn't know how to cook" but like real, serious, GET OUT RIGHT NOW stuff. And personalities have a lot to do with what's "ok" and what's "not."
Using MBTI, I picked out the top deal breakers for personalities!

Dishonesty/Disloyalty

INTJ, ENTJ, INFJ
These personality types seek truth, understanding and kindness. Because they seek that, they also expect it. They are extremely devoted to making things work when they are *in it* so your partner must also be open and honest with you.

Sets Limits on Freedom

ENFP, ENFJ, ESFP, ESTP
When a relationship is "limiting" to your needs, desires, or dreams you tend to back out. Your ideal partner is supportive with whatever you chose and isn't the type that will "tie you down." So anytime someone says, "I don't want you do that, or try that." That's not for you.

Close-mindedness

INFP, INTP, ENTP, ISFJ, ISTP
Your type is the extremely open to new perspectives and trying new things. If your partner isn't that way too, you get big red flags. You like having in-depth conversations about things, but if your partner doesn't respect new thoughts, that's a HUGE red flag for you.

Unwillingness to Commit

ESFJ, ESTJ, ISTJ
You are the loyal, ever-giving type. Once you are in a relationship, you are in it for the long haul. And if someone is hesitant about being just with you? No thanks. You feel you deserve someone that is willing to commit to being just with you.
ISTJ: @Swhitta
Not sure what type you are? Take the Quiz <<HERE>> and report back! Ask and I can tag you:)

How'd I do this time everyone?! Did I miss another major deal-breaker?!

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adventurer... feeling are my downfall at times...
2 years agoReply
Oh my god, this is so accurate. SO accurate. Every time I've gotten out of a relationship (on my terms), it's because I felt like he wasn't giving me enough space and demanding too much out of me during times I wanted to really really focus on other projects/things/etc. aside from our relationship.
2 years agoReply
SAME @danidee like I need to be able to feel free to do what I want in a relationship! otherwise don't feel supported and happy
2 years agoReply
Oh, this is really cool, @nicolejb... accurate, too. Following. :)
2 years agoReply
@ButterflyBlu 馃槃 you are the best
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