AlloBaber
2 years ago1,000+ Views

I was browsing some articles on love (because I read up on this stuff) and found one called "There Is No Gray Area: He Is Either Obsessed With You Or He DGAF." I was a little dumbfounded, because that's... kind of an insane thing to say. Here's an excerpt:

"Guys are never playing hard-to-get or being aloof to get you interested. He isn’t ghosting you because he’s coy; he’s ghosting you because he doesn’t want to deal with telling you he’s over it. But trust me, he’s over it.
This sucks to hear. It blows. I know that. There have been plenty of times in my sordid past when I have convinced myself that a guy is going to come around, stop treating me like second-class garbage and be a good boyfriend...
What you may perceive as some kind of game, some variety of mixed signals, is not what you think it is. Those confusing signals are actually the CLEAREST signal of all: he’s not that into you. He doesn’t care. He doesn’t. He does not.
If he’s not calling you his girlfriend, it’s because he doesn’t want you to be his girlfriend. If he’s not committing, it’s because he doesn’t see you as worthy of a commitment. If he’s distant, it’s because he doesn’t care enough."

Is this a real thing?!? I'd love to hear what you guys think.

You can read it in full here if you want to, but I think you probably can get the picture from the above chunk.
I mean, seriously??? Guys NEVER send any sort of mixed signal?!
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Actually, I have to agree with all of it. Not the playing games part so much, because people play games. I know I've done those things. I have friends who have gone through those things with the men they were involved in. One just didn't get the hint, traveled a thousand miles to see him when he moved, and was treated like shit for the entire two weeks she was there.
2 years ago·Reply
I think is definitely room for wiggle room, but not a whole lot. I hope this article inspires people mostly to find someone that appreciates them for who they are, instead of encouraging them to wait around. I just wish it was put more eloquently. lol.
2 years ago·Reply
Yeah you might be right @nicolejb lol. It's a weird way to say some things that I feel to be true.. And yet she like waayyyy overstates them lol. I also agree with you IPS. There are always... at least 50 shades of gray *dramatic music* @InPlainSight
2 years ago·Reply
Hahahah dear god I hope not that... @AlloBaber XD
2 years ago·Reply
being direct and straight to the point and honest is mixed signals and let's not be naive MEN. Because when all is said and done we could just be Honest and Straight Forward to the point. But like a Women, it's up to the Man unto pick up those pieces and read His situation just like it is for the Women. So it goes BOTH WAYS EVERONE!
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