2 years ago10,000+ Views
Break ups are extremely difficult. The nights alone are what really hurt, the hours spent wasted away in the dark wondering and worrying the "what ifs". And while breaking up will always feel shitty, there are 3 very important questions you should never ask yourself.

1. Could I have done something better?

The answer honestly could be yes or no, but wondering that will not help the matter. The time for what could or couldn't be done has long past and worrying over it now will do nothing but upset you more and even led you to question the very foundation of your relationship. It isn't worth it and it isn't helpful.

2. Will I ever move on?

The answer is Yes, as long as you try!! Take time to grieve because losing the one you love hurts like hell, but refusing to accept the end will leave no room to start a new beginning. And a new beginning is exactly what you need, even if it is a new beginning of a glorious single life.

3. Was it worth this pain?

If it hurts you so much you are questioning this, then Yes, your love WAS worth that pain. Love is wonderful because it makes you feel happier then you ever thought possible, but feeling that happiness is always a gamble because with that happiness comes indescribable sadness. While the pain hurts, the happy moments will always make it worth it after the sting of the break up wears off.
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honestly what woman would fall for me. im just a cold asshole. ive given and given and given to much. the kind caring person i was has been murdered by my emotions. not every woman is bad just like not every man is bad. but i dont trust other people. the darkness in the human mind is to much for one to hold onto kindness. we can't handle our own existence. my mother proved to me that to me. she couldn't even love her own children. i live every day looking forward to the hope of finding someone. i live everyday looking at who i am. telling the one woman i want how beautiful she us every day. i go unnoticed, every day. i want to have something with her. i have fought to much for what i want. to even exist i had to fight. the many time i've come so close to death. but my purpose is not to give up.
2 years ago·Reply
turn to God. everything happens for a reason. never give up and pray
2 years ago·Reply
I no it's hard to tell sometimes but everyone is valuable in different ways. And sometimes when things end, it can be hard to see your value. <3
2 years ago·Reply
You going be okay
2 years ago·Reply
So sweet @McisseCisse ❤️
2 years ago·Reply