times have changed . social media has changed and evolved. mentalities are different. I personally have tried many approaches and the end result isn't always the same . feels more like shopping for a new car but then turns out to be a lemon. the honest good guy approach doesn't always work. or never for that matter. do women like the bad boy vibe ? why is it so difficult to have a genuine experience and express interest amongst each other without being categorized as thirsty or creepy or weird ?