Yeah, it is. I don't like conflict either. In my mind, I'm telling them off but in reality I'm just standing there, unable to speak (also due to social anxiety ) Myrtles have an ability to sniff out the anxious ones.
I just read about Myrtles and ugh, I've definitely had a person like that in my life before. It's really hard to know what to do, especially when you're a nice person who doesn't really like conflict. D: