So I am having a dilemma, in which I have my dreams, and my family. So I am the Co-founder, and VP of my new business which manages and plans music events, as in raves, festivals etc... And we are throwing out first race we have been planning. And let me say this now, music and festivals and raves have been the biggest dreams of my life to do, to say, "yea, I made this event." So I have devoted endless hours and hundreds in gas to work on getting ready for our first event. We want to have it in spring in April, my birth month! And so it comes we set the date on Friday, April 22nd, 2016. Cool we have that down and are working on securing our deposite to secure the venue and date. Then comes today, the day I go to celebrate my grandmothers birthday. And somehow the event pops up with grandma, and she asks when it is. So I tell her, and she asks me, "Did you check to see if Passover is that day?" Yes I'm Jewish and Passover is one of our high holidays, like the equivalent to Christmas. And well she wants the whole family their. So I tell her I will see if I can change the date, and I look and see I can the next Friday is open. So I tell my team hey let's change it to the 29th? And some agreed, so I went to my grandma and told her I changed it. And it made her and the rest of my family not mad at me anymore. (Forgot to say everyone in my family was mad at me that I didn't check to see if we had a holiday that month.) But my best friend (President and other Co-founder) tells me that the dj's can't come that next week and we have been promoting that date, so why change it. So I'm here and I don't know what to do. Follow my dreams and piss off my family, or make my family happy and not go to the event that I need to be at that I planed so much to do. Opinions?