2 years ago
AlloBaber
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An Anonymous Vingler Needs Help!
Hey guys! One of our dear friends messaged me not long ago looking for some love advice. Sometimes, when faced with love dilemmas, I feel like I know exactly the right thing to say, but other times... even the Princess of Love could use some help haha.
At the user's request, I'm keeping them anonymous, but I'm going to summarize what they've told me as best I can, and maybe you guys can offer up some advice. I'm sure it would be very, very appreciated :)

Here's The Sitch

"My two best friends are dating each other. One's a guy, and one's a girl. I love them both. Only problem is... I think I'm actually in love with my guy best friend. He can read me like a book, and so can she, and I'm really worried that one of them will find out. My girl best friend asked me whose side I would choose if they broke up... I kind of feel like that's a bad sign. I'm worried for them, but I'm also confused, because part of me is secretly kind of hoping they will break up... but if I dated my guy best friend, I know that would really hurt my girl best friend, and possibly ruin our friendship forever."
Thoughts?
The Vingler involved really appreciates any help and wisdom you can give!! :)
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I was finally able to properly apologize years later. Our friendship was never as close as it was but that is the consequence and risk I took. She totally forgive me! I've learned a lot thru my mistakes! Never happened a 2nd time that's for sure
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Totally @redapple615 being able to tell when they are just feeling and you are able to let them go out of respect, I think is SO mature!
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number one, don't worry about sides. number two, in the event it does come to a head, be clear, direct, and honest. number three, do not make excuses for your feelings, or theirs. you all have a right to your own emotions
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hold your feeling.. friend or love that need to be sacrifice? friend will be forever but love? can't be sure right? go with the flow
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Sometimes you just have to ask yourself will it be all worth it? And you also need to ask how would you feel if you were in the same situation.
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