2 years ago1,000+ Views
Go With the Flow When Dating
As someone who can be the queen of strict life rules and staying within the lines and boundaries of what's acceptable and what's not, I think I can honestly relate to people facing troubles finding someone acceptable to date. I have come to find that dating is about finding someone you want to spend the rest of your life with falling in love, but it's also a life experience, and let's face it life is a timeline full of experiences. Some experiences you choose to like when the pictures pop on your timeline, and well others... you untag yourself in and delete and make a mental report. Dating is the same way. Like life, you should take it seriously but also understand that mistakes are inevitable but necessary. Take it from me. I used to be that person who would wait around for mister right and would pass up opportunities to be with good guys, and you know what... I found myself forever single! Don't get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with that approach. If you don't want to "settle," then don't. But recently I changed my perspective, and I can say that I find myself happier, and my dating life is benefiting from it. I am really happy that I didn't whip out the list and that I just went with the flow. All I'm saying is tossing the list aside was the best thing I could have done!
dating is weird to me because i've been in a relationship for all of my early twenties and I don't think I'd even know how to date casually now
2 years ago·Reply
I think it's a bit of give and take. People are afraid to act on their feelings, so sometimes I like to reach out myself and initiate something. but other times it can be really tough.
2 years ago·Reply
Ive been single my whole life, but at this point there isn't any girls I like enough to ask out that are single.
2 years ago·Reply
maybe you should try asking someone out that Maybe you don't love but just have pretty good conversation with @BlackDragon88
2 years ago·Reply
@DominiqueDaniel For the most part the only girls I get a chance too are dating someone else. Also I'd have a reaaaly hard time trying to start a relationship I don't have feelings for. I know I wouldn't enjoy it if my heart wasn't into it. Plus I have yet to find someone I truly truly want to date.
2 years ago·Reply