Since you're in a relationship, I am pretty hopeful that you have each other's back. I am also hopeful that no matter what, you will both be on the same side--and not in opposition.
I am not going to ask you the last time you communicated this sentiment (seen above) to your lover. Instead, I want to ask you a different question: Do they KNOW that you're always on their side?
You can't just say the words. You have to express them through your partner's love languages. Do you know what those are? Do you know what yours are?