nicolejb
2 years ago100+ Views
Well, Valentines Day is over, and according to Facebook in 2014, people changed their relationship status within 4 Days of Valentines Day. So hopefully your relationship is pretty solidified right now.
Essentially, you are either in a relationship or you aren't. And with that comes the Exes!

Two questions:

How do you deal with your ex?

Some of my ex bfs are now really good friends with me. While others remain, well, we don't talk... And each I think is healthy for me.
Do you talk to your ex? Are you friends? Or is it best to avoid them?

How do you deal with your SO's ex?

I had a bf that was still best friends with his ex and it upset me at first, but then after talking things out I realized how platonic things were, and I really didn't have anything to worry about.
Are you chill with the ex talking to your SO? Are you friendly with them?
Tagging some friends that might be able to share:

Give your advice, and I'll make a card out of the best advice!!:)

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I think if u r in true relation with your partner and previously u had some ex's bf then its better to avoid them cuz that I'll surely affect your present relationship a feeling of insecureness may occur . so myself better try to keep distance from my ex's and he too we both r happy with our present life going :)
I think it depends if you still have feelings for them it's best to avoid them. But if the break up was mutual and no feelings longer linger around I think it's okay. I'm friends with some of my ex's. however if you have a new boyfriend or girlfriend it's best not to have your ex around. I'm sure if your boyfriend or girlfriend stayed friends with one of their ex you wouldn't like it. otherwise I see no problem with it
@JordanRivera ohhh yeahhh I think that's SO important!
yup! that's been the plan so far. she has her support net and I have mine so that's all one could hope for I guess
I'd like to be friends with my ex but I'm not confident that that's bound to happen any time soon.
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