I usually don't have troubling making friends, I've always been really good at walking up to someone and saying "hi!" and going from there. But lately I've been having a hard time building and creating friendships in my adult life.
It's hard making friends after school you guys.
I present a version of myself that is awesome, excited, totally confident and normal! But then I discovered I've actually been going about making friendships and relationships the totally wrong way! According to this video and experts ----
You should be vulnerable and open about what you struggle with.
That's not to say you should go out there and tell everyone all of your insecurities, BUT if you have someone in your life who you are starting to trust, and you want to take things deeper ----
Open up to them. Tell them your worries, frustrations, and insecurities! Be honest and caring when they share theirs.
Because truth is: I'm insecure about my looks, unsure of myself at work, and I have like zero friends. But at least I can share that with someone I care about.