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I usually don't have troubling making friends, I've always been really good at walking up to someone and saying "hi!" and going from there. But lately I've been having a hard time building and creating friendships in my adult life.

It's hard making friends after school you guys.

I present a version of myself that is awesome, excited, totally confident and normal! But then I discovered I've actually been going about making friendships and relationships the totally wrong way! According to this video and experts ----

You should be vulnerable and open about what you struggle with.

That's not to say you should go out there and tell everyone all of your insecurities, BUT if you have someone in your life who you are starting to trust, and you want to take things deeper ----

Open up to them. Tell them your worries, frustrations, and insecurities! Be honest and caring when they share theirs.

Because truth is: I'm insecure about my looks, unsure of myself at work, and I have like zero friends. But at least I can share that with someone I care about.
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I have a few people I consider best friends and who I'm consistently talking to. But I'm like you, some come and go and that's ok! @1FallenAngel @RafaelRese18 EXACTLY. Sometimes I would just rather listen to someone else vent then to have to worry about my own stuff
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google docs and I have a great time in the morning and I have to do with my family , and 22. we are not the only thing that is the most of the best way for you. you can also be able. the first to see the attached file for the next few weeks ago, and I will be in a couple of weeks ago. it will not only the first time in a couple days
2 years ago·Reply
Hmmm that must be harder for you since ensure extroverted right? @nicolejb
2 years ago·Reply
Totally @Chrisingularis, I think since I'm an extrovert, I would rather have people talk to me, but the introvert in my doesn't want to share much. haha
2 years ago·Reply
@natalijb... Well..personally me.. I Iam not one of making lots of friends. . I have always been selective since childhood. .in other words I might only have one or two friends on a period of time but those will last a lifetime .. I do agree that. sharing your problems let's say... will be a better way to relate to someone than sharing stuff that are just superficial. .to make a bond with someone you will have to go deeper.. and let the person knows that you will always be there for them when he\she needs you.
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