A true leader pushes those that follow with the best intent in mind. A true leader is also loyal to those that follow him into darkness and into the light. If you're a leader follow the rules that you put into place for your followers. If you don't then you'll seem come off as "your better than them." Be careful in all you and say and do. Allow those that obey you be able to come to you with their ideas. They may have better ideas on how to do things than you do.