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There is this guy that is trying really hard to get the attention of my girlfriend and is so far getting it. I talked to her about it but she still seems to fall for him. Idk whether to call it quits with her or just simply hope I don't lose her. Plz help me fast idk what to do.
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Thanks for the advice.
Are you sure it's romantic attention & not friendship? If so, I'd talk to her about it & see what light she is seeing his advances in!
I've seen both sides man and it hurts. Essentially what he will try to do is look more exciting than you and be everything you aren't. Perhaps he goes out a lot, hikes a lot, works out, plays an instrument. Try to improve yourself or add new activities in your life. If she ends up doing anything with the other guy then you know she isn't worth the pain and effort to keep her around. Improve yourself and if she's going to do anything, she's going to do it. Best of luck
I wouldn't end it unless you know for SURE this other guy and her have a thing. Otherwise it could come across as jealous. Really talk to her about how this bothers you and ask her if she has ANY feelings for this guy