Hi Vingle Advice buddies. I have an anonymous Vingler who reached out to me and is asking for a little bit of love advice!! If you could respond and help her out that would be amazingly helpful!
Here's a bit of context: We met through mutual friends. His friend is my friends boyfriend. We met back around the 4th of July. And we typically spend one night together each week. We bonded over our love of the same music. We've been to a bunch of concerts together.
Here's the situation: We have lots of fun together and we're pretty close. I've told him stuff that I haven't told like anyone. I wanna take things to the next step and I brought up how I feel the pressure to get into a relationship. And he told me just to do whatever I think is right based on me not what anyone else thinks. And he mentioned that he doesn't know what he's doing when it comes to relationships either.
And I'm having the same trouble not knowing if I should initiate something with a guy I've been hanging out/going on dates with. Like part of me wants more but I don't know how to bring it up to him. Or if I should just wait for him (although I think that'll be a long time).