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My relationship with this girl is very complicated. She is my best friend of over five years and she is also my "first" we were both in a bad place when it happened but as a few years past, I realized I wasn't just infatuated with her, we connect so well, she's even noticed it. Our tastes are so similar, we can talk for hours. I've had feelings for her once before and she rebuffed my affection stating that she didn't feel the same at the time. I feel as though I should give it another shot since now we are both in a better place, but I would like a second opinion. I'm torn between this. and I can't help but feel as though I can't get closure without telling her. plus I've tried to stop my feelings but there's something about her. something I can't just forget about. P.S. I've always wanted to go to Iceland and me asking her to go was a reference to how I always wanted to go with someone I loved and I'm not sure if she remembers or put two and two together.
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Wow!! This is exciting and also complicated. haha but I think everyone is right. Maybe this trip together is a perfect way for you to try to connect and see if a relationship is what you want!! good luck!!
2 years ago·Reply
@pirateking47 @2Distracted @nicolejb So I decided not to do it on the trip, I'm planning on taking her to dinner this weekend to celebrate her birthday and give her an awesome present so I think after that would be a good time.
2 years ago·Reply
Yeah, that sounds like a good compromise !! @RafaelRese18 let us know how it goes. And don't be afraid to let her know your true feelings!
2 years ago·Reply
@RafaelRese18 good luck to you sir
2 years ago·Reply
I'll be looking forward to an update! thanks for tagging me !!!
2 years ago·Reply