So you want to find the love of your life? Your best bet is to stop looking for bae, and start being bae.
It makes a lot of sense that the best way to attract someone super amazing is to BE super amazing yourself. That's why I think that all of us love-hungry folk need to stop searching for the perfect person, and become that person ourselves!!
If you want to be SUPER dateable, these are the 5 qualities you definitely need to foster:
1. Drive, motivation, and passion
Figure out what your passions are, and dive in.
Have goals and go after them.
Spend your free time creating or learning, instead of watching TV.
2. Quietly confident and secure
Make a list of all the things you love about yourself, and memorize it.
Take pride in your appearance.
Stand up straight.
Don't belittle, ridicule, or put down others.
Know your worth, and believe in yourself.
Work on your insecurities.
Don't chase after attention or vain recognition.
Learn to love you for you.
Have an inner moral compass.
Listen to your conscience.
Desire to do good.
Earn the trust of others.
Have a great reputation.
Make good decisions.
Understand that the world is bigger than you.
4. Respectful of others
Love everyone, even when they don't deserve it.
Take care of those who need it.
Respect those who are different.
Look out for the little guys.
Be the friend you'd like to have.
Never disrespect anyone.
Don't burn bridges.
Cheer others on, don't bring them down.
Demonstrate respect for both the important and unimportant people.
Be an individual.
Don't be anyone but yourself.
Get to know yourself – what makes you tick? What do you need in a partner? What makes you happy?
Refuse to compromise on what's important to you.
Grow out of the desire to be fake.
Laugh at what you find funny.
Cry when you feel sad.
Be open, be vulnerable, and be real with people.
Become your truest you.
What other characteristics do you find dateable? :)
Share your opinion in the comments below!