I hate it when people call kpop stupid or useless, because it's not, it's well written music with amazing group members that love and support eachother! Here is my story:
around 11-12 years old, my oldest brother moved out, my dad and mom split up, and I was constantly fighting with my mom.
the summer that my dad and my 2 oldest brothers, leaving just one brother, me and my mom, my best friend moved to oregan, and I switched schools. I had no friends, I was bullied really bad, I was constantly alone.
I soon fell into deep depression, no one understood me, I couldnt talk to anyone, my mom was narcissistic, I gained some weight, I hated myself. I became very suicidal.
just last june, I went to Arizona to visit my cousins because my aunt had died from cancer. it was very hard, my cousin, alyssa, introduced me to kpop while I was there.
the more I listened, I began to connect and I loved it. when school started, I was happier, with kpop I could connect with songs and realize my feelings and solve my problems instead of holding on to my depression. I made more friends, found some fellow kpop peeps, and my cuts are healing.
and now I can say I'm happy! sure there are a few bumps in the road now and then, but kpop SAVED MY LIFE.