After my last breakup, I told myself I wouldn't get into a relationship for a long time, but I had the wrong intentions. I didn't want to be in a relationship because I assumed it wasn't my fault, women are evil, I hate them all! But as I spent more time by myself, with myself, I realized that I was the problem, and not the women that I knew, and that I needed to do a lot of growing before I dated anyone else. But im glad I've had this time to look inward. I've changed as a person, I've reevaluated my morals and ethics, I've reconsidered a lot of beliefs I used to hold on tightly to, and questioned them. Point is, if anyone had to date my old self, I would feel bad for them. And I'm glad I've had time to fully discover myself.